Hi,

So, this guy I know came to stay at my house the other night with his friend. He's actually someone I had recently become intimate with too which makes it sting more. The next morning I heard him on the phone saying he wanted his rental car one more day. When I asked his friend, "why are you renting a car? Is your truck in the shop?" He replied - "to be incognito" - That's when I knew something was up. WHen I asked my friend - he said he was moving some marijuana. There was a HUGE bag almost the size of a suitcase in my living room. I asked is it in my house, and he said yes. Now I don't know if the bag was full or the drugs or if only some of the bag was the drugs, but it's obvious that he had a lot otherwise why did he need to be renting a car? I said, in a calm voice, get that shit out of my house. My friend was very offended, and said I was rude to him and was leaving, and just drove off. I was very upset, not just because we had been in bed not minutes beforehand, but because I felt that HE was being more than rude to me buy violating my trust and disrespecting me. If the cops had been following him, and showed up at my house, what may have happened to me? I am not a citizen, I have a green card, so face deportation if charged with something, and how can you prove you are not involved when its in your own house?? . His friend said I should have asked first how much he had, as they were in the legal limit for growing - but if that's the case why the need to be incognito?
Am I over reacting or did I have every right to be pissed? I feel he has disrespected me, and that the fact that he is making me wrong and saying I was rude is just crazy as I didn't yell or curse, I just said get that shit out of my house - and yes, I did have a look and a tone of disgust which I feel was appropriate due to the fact that he never asked permission the night before and if he had the answer would have been hell no.

Anyone got any feedback on this one?

Thanks family,
Blessings.